The abysmal search for how to live life to the fullest, composed of happiness, had once been and still is the fundamental question that walks around our head like a criminal trying to escape from prison.
The criminal is the truth; we are all afraid to face, come across, think, and understand.
Our sooth to find the meaning of what we stint.
How can we understand the truth? How are we going to know what is immoral or proper? Or is there a single truth, or can they ever live independently together?
After initially scoffing at my youthful naivety, I will continue asking “why” for almost every living regard in my mind …
The actual question is not “How” or “What”. It is “When to sequence.” [When] is the best time to take action or slow down as we climb through mountains, swim deep down the ocean, or fly up to the sky as a test of living.
[My] ideas never fit neatly under any single heading. [I] feel it is arbitrary to define things in life rather than as humans, can extend our thoughts to the fullest to best understand reality.
We precisely have to step back, notice by leaving the blinkers behind, and think… This is the sequence of how to best live our lives by making valid decisions.
I firmly believe in prioritizing realism right after waking up every morning. It is because I want to ensure that living in a dream world can hinder my ability to focus on the challenges that need my attention and the opportunities that need to be seized.
Why cannot we accept that nothing needs to change, last forever, or end?
From the moment our brains start to work, we get obsessed and blind with our goals, the things we want to fit in a day, schedules, to-do lists…
It is not reality; it is a dream we all trying to make ourselves believe.
The truth is passing from our fingers whenever we lustrate ourselves. The trees, the hot smoke dancing through the air as I sip on my morning coffee, the moment of gazing at the sky and trying to make out shapes in the clouds, taking deep breaths and feeling my lungs expand, listening to the sweet melodies of birds chirping, enjoying our favorite music without any interruptions, the joy of connecting with people through conversation, and the sensation of warmth or coolness on our skin — these are some of life’s simple pleasures that we often overlook.
Well, [We-humans] are part of nature, too.
We are nature,
This is the most recent reason why it is essential to rein back every day and acknowledge we are the colors of nature as it helps us define the absolute meaning of life with certainty.
Enjoying life does not match the definition of happiness. Every choice we make in life depends on the base of our own happiness at the end. We assume we will be happy in the end. Happiness is our life goal notwithstanding, “Joy” in life and “happiness” are not the same. Although they are related, there is a significant difference between the two. Happiness is fleeting and temporary, whereas joy is a more enduring feeling. Joy is about being content, not constantly happy, but accepting and appreciating the ups and downs of life. It’s important to recognize that everyone experiences different emotions, and it’s okay not to be happy all the time. In fact, it’s perfectly normal to feel a range of emotions. So, embrace the moments of joy and appreciate them for what they are rather than constantly striving for happiness.
Enjoying life does not match the definition of happiness. Every choice we make in life depends on the base of our own happiness at the end. We assume we will be happy in the end. Happiness is our life goal notwithstanding, “Joy” in life and “happiness” are not the same. Although they are related, there is a significant difference between the two.
Happiness is fleeting and temporary, whereas joy is a more enduring feeling. Joy is about being content, not constantly happy, but accepting and appreciating the ups and downs of life.
It’s important to recognize that everyone experiences different emotions, and it’s okay not to be happy all the time. In fact, it’s perfectly normal to feel a range of emotions. So, embrace the moments of joy and appreciate them for what they are rather than constantly striving for happiness.
I create joy by doing things that come from the Earth. Such as volunteering, giving a helping hand to one another, caring for each other, listening to each other, showing respect to each other, smiling at each other, and discussing the properties of life to realize and return to reality with one another. Those things make us humans rather than turn our brains into machinery.
“I can never quite define life in any of my writings.”
Life is not a universal truth but a personal journey. It is full of uncertainties, and we must create our own meaning.
We should focus on finding things that bring us joy rather than short-term pleasure. For instance, we should aim to find a person whom we genuinely want to marry instead of settling for a quick relationship. Similarly, we should set goals that we can work on over an extended period, allowing us to master them rather than just memorizing them without truly learning. Instead of simply agreeing or disagreeing with statements, we should actively observe our surroundings, gather information, and share our knowledge.
If there is anything more valuable meaning to seek in life than feeling sensationally good all of the time. And choosing to remain alive, choosing life is the prelude to creating one’s own meaning of life.
Trying to create a life you can taste the joy or bring in is a worthy pursuit.
There is nothing you cannot achieve, but there are things you did not try or even start doing.
If your plans in life do not work, don’t give up and change your goals. Just try from different perspectives, ask for help from one another, and try to choose a way from humanity.
We need humanity more than we need superiority,
Unlocking a fulfilling life requires embracing the things that bring us joy and creating our own sense of purpose. Once we’ve discovered our unique meaning, we can then shape our existence to fit our ideal vision. Start living the life you’ve always wanted by discovering what brings you joy and pursuing it purposefully.
-Nazli Yildiz
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