Most of us are frightened by the idea of standing out. Of feeling out of place, feeling like we don't belong. We stop ourselves short before we give our opinion, put away clothing that makes a statement at the back of our closet, keep our heads down. We hesitate to be the contrast in our lives.

But... isn't contrast beautiful? We pause to watch the sunset, because the vibrant hues of fire are complementary to the sky. We stop to look up at the hot pink flowers against their dark backdrop, cherishing their fragrance. We focus on the singer spotlighted on stage when the rest of the stadium is dark, and cheer.

So put that bright hair clip in your hair. Wear those vibrant shoes as you walk on dull asphalt. Be a new light in someone's day. Don't allow fear to stop you achieving happiness. Branch out from your usual routine. It's something I can work on, too.