Don't let them talk you down. Don't let them take all your time. Don't let them have a say in what you do with your own life. Don't be too vulnerable with them or give them any information they could easily use against you if blackmailing is a problem (but also don't lie cuz honesty is important).
You could have her freak out over how different some things are from before she went into a coma. Like something's been repainted, or ai has made advancements or something depending on how long they've been in that coma.
Sounds like they could be a bit of a tricky person, so be careful about them. You don't want to end up in a push-pull relationship. Those are not fun.
If you think this person is genuine, you could try being the one that initiates conversation on the days that they do not. I mean they can't be the only one starting everything. Perhaps they just don't think that you care about them or actually want to hang out with them, or they're just focusing their attention elsewhere. You never know what can go on in people's heads.
You should probably make what I like to call a brain dump. Which is when you write all of your ideas on a piece of paper. And pick which ones are your favorite. And to make it more fun I like to decorate the paper with squiggles and flowers.
Thanks! Yeah I mean you can't just magically fit in even if you were meant for it and it indeed was your place. It's just hard when you feel like you're being disregarded or sightly rejected or downplayed just because of one small difference, though usually that is just the trick of the mind, but it does happen
Boundaries.
Don't let them talk you down. Don't let them take all your time. Don't let them have a say in what you do with your own life. Don't be too vulnerable with them or give them any information they could easily use against you if blackmailing is a problem (but also don't lie cuz honesty is important).
It's good that you acknowledge they're toxic 👍
Good luck, hope you're having a good day too
hm okay I'll try it
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You could have her freak out over how different some things are from before she went into a coma. Like something's been repainted, or ai has made advancements or something depending on how long they've been in that coma.
Sounds like they could be a bit of a tricky person, so be careful about them. You don't want to end up in a push-pull relationship. Those are not fun.
If you think this person is genuine, you could try being the one that initiates conversation on the days that they do not. I mean they can't be the only one starting everything. Perhaps they just don't think that you care about them or actually want to hang out with them, or they're just focusing their attention elsewhere. You never know what can go on in people's heads.
You should probably make what I like to call a brain dump. Which is when you write all of your ideas on a piece of paper. And pick which ones are your favorite. And to make it more fun I like to decorate the paper with squiggles and flowers.
Thanks :)
Very pretty :)
Thanks! Yeah I mean you can't just magically fit in even if you were meant for it and it indeed was your place. It's just hard when you feel like you're being disregarded or sightly rejected or downplayed just because of one small difference, though usually that is just the trick of the mind, but it does happen
I just confront the person because it's exhausting to walk on thin ice with them and you shouldn't have to